This relationship quote is dedicated to anyone just getting over a breakup. Breakups suck, and they usually suck more for one specific person in the relationship. Breakups have been known to suck so bad they can make people not want to get out of bed, talk to anyone, or eat. We’ve all been there and I’m sure know other people who have been there as well. It’s okay to be sad and cry when you’re hurt. That applies to more than just breaking off a relationship. In fact, some scientific studies have shown that the same parts of the brain which are activated in physical pain are also activated in emotional pain following things like a breakup. That means a really significant breakup is processed in the brain similarly to a broken leg. No one wants to feel these things, but it’s actually important all of us endure these kinds of feelings at least once in life. Breakups can be an emotional pain (and recovery) that helps both men and women grow and learn more about their feelings. The toughest and most important part of going through a breakup is the recovery. First comes initial acceptance where you are finally giving in to the terms of the breakup. Overtime this will change. While the pain may still be present, you can see the relationship more clearly and accept each other’s role in it, the good and bad. Then comes to best stage – HOPE! You’ll see a picture of your ex and not feel much anymore. You’ll go out with friends and realize you are enjoying yourself again. At this point the bridge over your tears has been built and you’re now working your way across it. You will FEEL it – the feeling of moving on.