Loyalty is something that we all value and appreciate both in our partner, and in ourselves. When entering into a relationship both parties are agreeing to put their heart at risk. However, at times the right person might not seem so perfect once they’ve broken your trust. Being loyal to the person you’re dating is more than the fact you don’t sleep around. There are actually several things a man can do to show you that he’s loyal and committed to you. Listed below are six signs you can look for in your boyfriend to see if he’s being loyal with you or not!
1. He’s Not Selfish – Cheating is the worst kind of being selfish, so if your man decides to leave you at the last minute or ditches you when you need him the most, he might not really be worth it after all. A good boyfriend should respect your needs and be there for you whenever you need him. Those who will commit themselves to the relationship are keepers!
2. He Never Hits On Other Women – A loyal boyfriend will respect you and should also only have eyes for you. There’s nothing worse than seeing someone else’s boyfriend hitting on random girls at the bar, a party, or even his girlfriend’s friends. A real man will make sure that you know you’re his first choice and not just an option.
3. He Checks On You – A loyal boyfriend will always want to make sure that you’re okay. He does this to make you feel loved and safe. If you’re sick he’ll be there to help you with warm soup, if you’re sad he’ll be there to give you a shoulder you can cry on. Loyal men will make sure you know that you’re the only one for him and will be by your side through rough days.
4. He Stands Up For Your Relationship – If your man is loyal then he should never be talking crap about you. He should understand the difference between talking crap and seeking advice. Even if he were talking as if it were all fun and games, he will cut all the smack talk about you or your relationship, simply because he respects you too much for that.
5. He Genuinely Cares About You – He should care about you not because he can get something from you, but because he truly cares about you and it makes him happy to see you smile. A loyal man should feel happy to be there for you and want to be your biggest lover and supporter. He will love you as you are, because that’s perfect for him.
6. He Talks About A Joint Future – A loyal man would never imagine his future without you in it. His future should be your future, and vice versa. If your boyfriend is loyal then he would never dream of a future life which you are not part of because he knows your importance to his life. That also means he would never treat your relationship as a joke, or a fling.
If your boyfriend or husband displays any of these signs to you then there is a good chance he’s being loyal. Loyal men will be happy with the women they’re with and will want to support you and do things to help you. Once you’ve found someone like this be sure to hold on and never let them go, because they don’t come around too often!