If you think having lots of money is the quickest way into a girl’s heart, then you are mistaken. There is a much more accessible, but no less effective tool – humor. If you can make a girl smile, consider that you’ve already won her. Laughter is a universal weapon. With its help, you can both destroy and create. It’s actually amazing how little attention men pay to the sense of humor. They try to make girls like them through their appearance, bank account, or ability to say compliments. Sure, all of that is great, and at some stages even necessary. But, laughter greatly simplifies the process of talking to women while also creating a better long-term relationship. If you want to know how to make your girlfriend laugh, continue reading and learn 3 key steps to making a woman laugh and how you can use the sense of humor to make yourself appear more intelligent and trustworthy.
The Difference Between A “Funny” Guy & A Guy Who “Makes Her Laugh”
It’s true that women love a guy with a good sense of humor – but this isn’t the same thing as being a “funny” guy. Women are not looking for “funny” men, even when they say they are. Instead, they’re looking for men who have a sense of humor – men who make them laugh. Being funny can be an attractive quality, but it’s not really what most women are looking for. There is a big different between a “funny” guy and a guy with a sense of humor — a funny guy can make women laugh, but he’s not as socially adept as a guy with a sense of humor.
What Does It Really Mean To Have A “Sense of Humor?”
A guy with a sense of humor is a guy who “gets a joke.” But, is that what makes him attractive? Not really – what’s attractive about a guy with a sense of humor is that he laughs in situations that other guys might get angry or upset with. A guy who has a sense of humor is not overly sensitive. He’s not angry or creepy or violent. Instead, he’s cool, calm, and confident. This is what it means to have a sense of humor – having the ability to find humor in things, or being willing to laugh.
Why Women Love A Guy Who Can Make Them Laugh
When a woman says, “I like a guy who can make me laugh,” she is being 100% honest. However, most men will interpret this the wrong way. Why? Because when a women likes a man – whether or not he has a sense of humor – he will make her laugh. That doesn’t always mean she will get those I like you type of feelings, but she might. When a woman is with a man she likes, she tends to get nervous – and her nervous reaction is to laugh. In addition to this, being around a guy she finds attractive triggers automatic mating behavior, like smiling and showing teeth. Attraction also brings out a submissive quality in women — so she feel like and often acts like a little girl, resulting in giggling and other girlish behavior. Just like the ability to laugh at yourself is a sign (and usually a result) of confident and self-acceptance, when you help a woman laugh at herself, she feels those same emotions of confidence and self-acceptance. And for a woman, this is incredibly attractive and enjoyable.
How To Make Your Girlfriend Laugh
Step 1. Remember That You Don’t Have To Be “Funny” – While women love a man with a sense of humor, it’s important to remember that you shouldn’t force the “funny.” It’s not necessary to be funny – your date shouldn’t feel like an open mic or standup comedy show. Many dating coaches teach their clients how to improvise – which is not the same as telling random jokes!
Step 2. Show Off Your Sense of Humor – Although it’s impossible to just create a sense of humor out of thin air, it’s actually pretty easy to show her yours. The easiest way to show her your sense of humor on a date is to ask yourself, “What’s funny about this that I haven’t already noticed?” Basically, that point in a situation where your natural response is to get anxious, annoyed, or angry. Instead of thinking about those things, think about laughing instead. The willingness to laugh (even at yourself) is a major sign of strength.
Step 3. If You Can Make Her Laugh, She’s Practically Yours – The final key is to remember that if she’s laughing, you’ve won half the battle. Next time you’re on a date with your girlfriend, and she challenges you (which she will likely do), try exercising your options to tease her, laugh, or smirk. One of the easiest ways to make her laugh is to stare at her hard while smirking. This shows her that you’re not intimidated by her challenges, and it also reveals your sense of humor. It will also likely make her laugh.