Most men think they’re the best when it comes to the art of making out. But, many of them need to just accept the fact that they most likely make at least one or two mistakes in this department. You see, a good kiss can actually determine a lot for you. From whether you’ll be taking things even further than that to whether or not a girl might think a man is “the one,” the way you kiss says a lot about you and can make or break your chances at love or lust. Often times, women are blamed for being complicated and not very easy to understand. Every man hates being unable to understand the female nature, but it’s actually themselves that need some improvement. Thankfully, there’s no better way to improve your kissing technique than learning and practicing! Below we compiled a list of 8 different things men do while making out which can completely destroy the mood.
The Biggest Kissing Mistakes
1. Not Playing The Dominant Role Of Leading While Making Out – Most of the women love when their partner takes the lead while making out. Although from time to time women want to take the credit of leading, this shouldn’t become the norm. It is a man’s responsibility to play the dominant role during a make out session.
2. When They Want To Try Crazy Things With Their Partner – Every woman loves an adventurous side in her man but when it gets to be too much, it’s no longer fun and can become exhausting. Every man should respect his partners feelings and should do things in a way which is acceptable and enjoyable for his partner as well.
3. Not Caring About Her Likes And Dislikes – There isn’t a single woman in the world who likes when a guy forces their likes and dislike on her. Your favorite position might be uncomfortable for her. As a man you should understand that and refrain from trying to force her to do something a certain way if she doesn’t like it. Do things you both like and make sure that she’s okay with it and also enjoying it as much as you are.
4. Too Much Tongue – Thrusting your tongue down her throat the minute she gives you her lips to kiss is probably the biggest turn-off there is in relationship history. Not only does it reek of desperation, it is downright unromantic. Don’t clean her mouth inside out functioning as a vacuum cleaner. She’s got toothpaste at home. If you have to involve the tongue, get there gently and slowly. The first 30 seconds of a kiss should never involve the tongue, nor should the first kiss of the evening.
5. Chewing Her Lips – The way you kiss her mouth tells her much about the way you love. Chew her lips inside out and chances are she will never let you go any further. Her mouth is NOT a piece of chicken at which you chew greedily till the last ounce of juice runs dry. Don’t bite her lips and leave her mouth all sore. Biting should be limited to when things are progressing past the kissing stage.
6. You Fail To Satisfy Her; You’re Done But She’s Not – Guys think when they’re done, their partners are done with as well, but that’s not always the case. Lots of men might become tired after making out for a little while, but a woman might feel like kissing for a little while longer. Keep that in mind!
7. Annoying Undressing Skills – Most women hate when the man doesn’t know how to set up the mood and has poor undressing skills. It simply just turns women off. We agree that some pieces of female clothing are often testing the abilities, while others present plenty of opportunities to even spice things up.
8. When They’re Too Quiet While Making Out – Lots of women like it when guys are a little bit loud in bed. They also like it when a man can make just the right amount of noise during intercourse. Believe it or not, science has proven that it helps to raise the sexual fantasies of a woman.